‘I’m not fully present at work:’ Shonda Rhimes says the expectation that workers tune out home life is a fantasy

January 6, 2022, 2:14 PM UTC
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Shonda Rhimes attends the 2019 Vanity Fair Oscar Party hosted by Radhika Jones at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on Feb. 24, 2019 in Beverly Hills, Calif.
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Good morning, Broadsheet readers! It’s been one year since the attack on the Capitol, New York Gov. Kathy Hochul outlines her agenda for the state, and Shonda Rhimes weighs in on the ‘fantasy’ of work-life balance. Have a great Thursday.

– ‘I’m not fully present at work.’ There are lots of interesting nuggets in this new Time profile of Shonda Rhimes, the prolific producer, screenwriter, and author, and her so-called second act at Netflix, which started in 2017 and was reupped last year with a five-year extension worth a reported $300 million to $400 million.

For one, she explains what drew her to her new Netflix limited series Inventing Anna, based on the New York story about real-life high-society scammer Anna Delvey, which debuts next month. “She was such a complex, interesting, unknowable person. If she had been a man, would she have gotten in so much trouble?,” Rhimes says. “People were outraged by her arrogance, her use of social media to create a frenzy around herself—all things that we applaud in many a person right now.”

She also explains her aversion to the “girlboss archetype,” which she decries as “bullsh-t that men have created to find another way to make women sound bad.” The word girlboss itself, is “a nice catchphrase to grab a bunch of women into one group and say, ‘This is what women are doing right now.’ Nobody ever says, ‘This is what men are doing right now,’” she says. 

And she insists that her shows are not veiled political statements. “I don’t like to be preached at, and I’m not interested in preaching.”

But what struck me most about Rhimes’s interview with Time‘s Judy Berman was an admission she made about the struggles of being a single mom of three and prolific TV show creator.

“I’m not fully present at work,” she said. “I don’t think anybody who has kids is fully present at work. The idea of pretending that we have no other life is some sort of fantasy out of the 1950s, where the little lady stayed at home. I don’t have a little lady at home. So if I am excelling at one thing, something else is falling off. And that is completely O.K.”

Rhimes’s perspective has shaped how she works and how she manages her 50-person staff, urging employees to log off after hours, resisting the urge to send late-night messages, and allowing for flexibility.

As Berman notes, it’s a frank statement from a superstar of the television industry known for churning out hits like Grey’s Anatomy, Scandal, and Bridgerton at a rapid pace; one that’s likely refreshing for working parents who are torn once again between remote learning and professional duties. Even the Shonda Rhimeses of the world can’t fully separate work and home life; nobody should be expected to. And Rhimes’s admission is the kind of public display of vulnerability we’re seeing more and more of from female leaders in male dominated spaces who view their empathetic management styles as competitive advantages. “I don’t want to sound sexist, but I never tried to lead like a man,” Rhimes says. “I was a single mom with kids. The idea that I would lead any differently than my needs required never occurred to me.”

Claire Zillman

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