Why you’re never too old to have a mentor

May 20, 2015, 2:30 PM UTC
KPMG DNI Department: Kathy Hannan. September 23, 2013. Photo by Andrew Collings.
KPMG DNI Department: Kathy Hannan. September 23, 2013. Photo by Andrew Collings.
Photograph by Andrew Collings

MPW Insider is an online community where the biggest names in business and beyond answer timely career and leadership questions. Today’s answer for: Why is it important to have a mentor? is written by Kathy Hopinkah Hannan, national managing partner of diversity and corporate responsibility at KPMG.

Mentorship is a hot topic, especially among young women looking to advance their careers. Without question, a mentor can truly help you move up the ranks at your organization. But what is the difference between a coach, mentor, and sponsor? Which one do you need the most? And perhaps most importantly, are you ever too old for a mentor?

Generally speaking, a mentor is someone who speaks with you. Mentors are critical to career advancement because they allow you the opportunity to share your insights and ideas in a “safe space.” Mentors provide guidance and it is up to you to take the advice and insights you’ve been given and do something with that information.

Unlike a mentor, a coach speaks to you. A coach in business operates much like one in sports, he or she will tell you what you need to do in order to advance. Having a coach is particularly important when you’re are starting out in an organization. They can help you navigate the political landscape and fast-track your career progression.

Finally, the role of a sponsor is to speak for you. A sponsor, usually a senior leader, actively seeks ways to use his or her influence to help advance your career, by recommending you for growth opportunities, introducing you to important contacts, and advocating on your behalf. The bottom line is that advancement in any organization requires you have all three.

But what if you are moving into a new role and your present mentor cannot provide the insight you need? Or you’ve stayed in your current role but have taken on new responsibilities? Do you stick with the same mentor? I’ve learned that you’re never too old for a new mentor, possibly even one younger than you.

True career progression requires not only the ability to adapt but also a zeal for taking on new projects and challenges. With each change, you should be open to guidance and insight from up, down, and across the organization. I sometimes refer to myself as a “closet millennial” because I connect with the millennial generation’s spirit and passion for diversity. My younger mentors challenge me to think more like an entrepreneur and push me to find innovative solutions to existing problems.

The real secret to success is to never stop learning. Obtaining knowledge is a continuous journey. The best leaders know they are never in a place where they wouldn’t benefit from the insights of a new mentor.

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