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* Quote of the Day from Howard Marks: “You know the definition of an economist? A portfolio manager who doesn’t mark to market.”
* Tweet of the Day: @hblodget: Tech folks making common and typical mistake when laughing at NYT Tesla driver: Normal people just want things to work.