• Home
  • News
  • Fortune 500
  • Tech
  • Finance
  • Leadership
  • Lifestyle
  • Rankings
  • Multimedia
Commentary

How long you should really stay at a job you hate

By
Carol Leaman
Carol Leaman
Down Arrow Button Icon
By
Carol Leaman
Carol Leaman
Down Arrow Button Icon
October 8, 2015, 3:45 PM ET
Axonify CEO Carol Leaman
Axonify CEO Carol LeamanCourtesy of Axonify

The Leadership Insider network is an online community where the most thoughtful and influential people in business contribute answers to timely questions about careers and leadership. Today’s answer to the question: How do you know it’s the right time to switch jobs? is written by Carol Leaman, CEO of Axonify.

It’s all Maslow’s fault. You know, Abraham Maslow, the guy who came up with the hierarchy of needs concept that we all learned in grade school? Yep, he’s the reason we change jobs. Alright, maybe we don’t change jobs because of him, but his insights into human motivation are the perfect frame of reference to explain why it may be time go find a new place to work.

Reality is, there are an endless number of reasons we all have for wanting to switch employers. Bad boss? Not enough money? No room for career growth? Poor culture? Sheer boredom? Each of these is influenced by other factors such as the stage of your career. It’s stressful, and complex.

But it doesn’t start out that way. When we take a new job, most of us are quite happy to dive in with both feet, jump on a steep learning curve, contribute in a positive way, make some friends and fit in. We’re excited and energized. For some, that ride continues for a long time. For others though, an unwelcome, external stimulus starts to creep up and eventually irritates us enough that we start thinking about life after the current employer.

See also: When this happens, you know it’s time for a new job

The idea of switching companies tends to be an unpleasant one because few people like the implications. It’s disruptive in a host of ways, and there’s anxiety about moving from the devil you know to the devil you don’t. How many people in your social circle hate their jobs, but stick around and complain about them forever? Sometimes the path of least resistance is to just stay stuck. It’s easy to weigh the pros and the cons over and over again in your head and let another year slide by.

But who wants that? Presuming that you can’t influence the things that are making you unhappy, the trick is gauging your level of dissatisfaction against your own personal hierarchy of needs and deciding when and if to cut the chord. While changing jobs shouldn’t be a snap decision, making it relatively quickly only gets you to the next stage of your career, and back to happiness faster.

That’s where Maslow’s hierarchy comes in: it gives you a set of criteria against which to measure how well your needs are being met, and helps you see in plain view whether it’s time to stay, or time to go.

Real all responses to the Leadership Insider question: How do you know it’s the right time to switch jobs?

3 signs your job is in serious danger by Matt Mickiewicz, co-founder of Hired.

This is how long it should take to gain new opportunities at work by Adam Ochstein, founder and CEO of StratEx.

Here’s how to tell if your job is at risk by Chris Perry, chief digital officer at Weber Shandwick.

What a failed negotiation could mean for your career by Shadan Deleveaux, co-founder of Technology For Families in Need.

Why a low paycheck isn’t enough to leave a job by Mike Guerchon, chief people officer at Okta.

This is how long you should wait before quitting a job by Edward Fleischman, chairman and CEO of The Execu|Search Group.

3 signs it’s time to switch jobs by Karen Appleton, SVP of industry at Box.

About the Author
By Carol Leaman
See full bioRight Arrow Button Icon

Latest in Commentary

Rakesh Kumar
CommentarySemiconductors
China does not need Nvidia chips in the AI war — export controls only pushed it to build its own AI machine
By Rakesh KumarDecember 3, 2025
8 hours ago
Rochelle Witharana is Chief Financial and Investment Officer for The California Wellness Foundation
Commentarydiversity and inclusion
Fund managers from diverse backgrounds are delivering standout returns and the smart money is slowly starting to pay attention
By Rochelle WitharanaDecember 3, 2025
8 hours ago
Ayesha and Stephen Curry (L) and Arndrea Waters King and Martin Luther King III (R), who are behind Eat.Play.Learn and Realize the Dream, respectively.
Commentaryphilanthropy
Why time is becoming the new currency of giving
By Arndrea Waters King and Ayesha CurryDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
Trump
CommentaryTariffs and trade
The trade war was never going to fix our deficit
By Daniel BunnDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
Elizabeth Kelly
CommentaryNon-Profit
At Anthropic, we believe that AI can increase nonprofit capacity. And we’ve worked with over 100 organizations so far on getting it right
By Elizabeth KellyDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
Decapitation
CommentaryLeadership
Decapitated by activists: the collapse of CEO tenure and how to fight back
By Mark ThompsonDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago

Most Popular

placeholder alt text
North America
Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez Bezos commit $102.5 million to organizations combating homelessness across the U.S.: ‘This is just the beginning’
By Sydney LakeDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
placeholder alt text
Economy
Ford workers told their CEO 'none of the young people want to work here.' So Jim Farley took a page out of the founder's playbook
By Sasha RogelbergNovember 28, 2025
5 days ago
placeholder alt text
North America
Anonymous $50 million donation helps cover the next 50 years of tuition for medical lab science students at University of Washington
By The Associated PressDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
placeholder alt text
C-Suite
MacKenzie Scott's $19 billion donations have turned philanthropy on its head—why her style of giving actually works
By Sydney LakeDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
placeholder alt text
Success
Warren Buffett used to give his family $10,000 each at Christmas—but when he saw how fast they were spending it, he started buying them shares instead
By Eleanor PringleDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
placeholder alt text
Economy
Elon Musk says he warned Trump against tariffs, which U.S. manufacturers blame for a turn to more offshoring and diminishing American factory jobs
By Sasha RogelbergDecember 2, 2025
1 day ago
Rankings
  • 100 Best Companies
  • Fortune 500
  • Global 500
  • Fortune 500 Europe
  • Most Powerful Women
  • Future 50
  • World’s Most Admired Companies
  • See All Rankings
Sections
  • Finance
  • Leadership
  • Success
  • Tech
  • Asia
  • Europe
  • Environment
  • Fortune Crypto
  • Health
  • Retail
  • Lifestyle
  • Politics
  • Newsletters
  • Magazine
  • Features
  • Commentary
  • Mpw
  • CEO Initiative
  • Conferences
  • Personal Finance
  • Education
Customer Support
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Customer Service Portal
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms Of Use
  • Single Issues For Purchase
  • International Print
Commercial Services
  • Advertising
  • Fortune Brand Studio
  • Fortune Analytics
  • Fortune Conferences
  • Business Development
About Us
  • About Us
  • Editorial Calendar
  • Press Center
  • Work At Fortune
  • Diversity And Inclusion
  • Terms And Conditions
  • Site Map

© 2025 Fortune Media IP Limited. All Rights Reserved. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy | CA Notice at Collection and Privacy Notice | Do Not Sell/Share My Personal Information
FORTUNE is a trademark of Fortune Media IP Limited, registered in the U.S. and other countries. FORTUNE may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Offers may be subject to change without notice.