Name: 3 Serious Online Dating Mistakes
Uploaded: 2017-02-13
Duration: 1 min 20 s
Description: eHarmony CEO is here to give you some advice

[ MUSIC ] The first mistake is they don't say enough about themselves. Don't tell me you like to go to live music. Tell me what kinds of music you like. What was the last show you saw? Give me some details. Save something for the date, but give me some details. So that's a big mistake people make. [ MUSIC ] Over the years we tend to create a lot of rules, and we end up with a lot of must haves and can't stands. What that means is, we paint ourselves into a corner. That is a very limiting Mentality. And what it does to your match pool, your pool of people, is it just shrinks it up and eventually your just waiting to talk to this very narrow range that you've created for yourself. [ MUSIC ] My advice to people is unless you feel scared in a first date Go on a second date with the person. Always give a second. Always go on a second date because the pressure will be so much less. Dates don't have to be a big production. You can go have a coffee or a beer or something. But make sure that if there's any chance that you might like this person that you give them a second date. [ BLANK_AUDIO ]

3 Serious Online Dating Mistakes

eHarmony CEO is here to give you some advice