And now for a counterargument.
In the new issue of 1843 magazine, a man named Nathan cautiously makes what some may consider a give-me-a-break argument: “In the society that I live in, as a professional in New York City, I think it is easier being a woman than being a man.”
Resist that reflexive eye-roll and hear Nathan out.
He argues that men are obliged to pursue work that supports a family and have no leeway to chase more flexible careers that allow for more time at home. He speaks with envy of female friends who left the workforce to be full-time mothers. “They weren’t perceived as failures,” he says, “If anything, they were told ‘That’s so great, you’re choosing to be a mom, that’s the most important thing in the world.’ That is not an option open to men.”
Nathan is not alone. 1843 reports that between 1977 and 2008 the percentage of American fathers in dual-earner couples who suffered from work-family conflicts jumped from 35% to 60%. The percentage of similarly vexed mothers grew only slightly in the same time period, from 41% to 47%.
The article is worth reading in full, but one takeaway is the overwhelming power of prevailing gender norms and the immense need to disrupt them. Society’s stubborn gender standards are prohibiting men from capturing the kind of work-life balance that Nathan covets and are subsequently saddling women with a disproportionate share of unpaid household and childcare labor. According to 1843:
“It’s seen as an unknowable crisis if men want to step down,” Barbara Risman, head of the department of sociology at the University of Illinois in Chicago, told the magazine. “It’s not just being more like women, it’s seen as being less than men. Because women are seen as less than men.”
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|IBM, which was once among Corporate America’s staunchest boosters of remote work, is calling its off-site employees back to the mothership. It gave thousands of its remote workers an ultimatum this week: abandon your home workspaces and return to a regional office—or leave the company. The move comes as IBM copes with 20 consecutive quarters of falling revenue and growing shareholder concern over CEO Ginni Rometty’s pay package.|
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|A health huddle|
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|Digging into drop-outs|
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|Leaving women behind|
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